As a plus size, let me tell you that it annoys me being called a 'real woman' or whatever too. It's patronising. It's like being called "special". Just call it plus size and be done with it. Why should your size have anything to do with how good or how much a woman you are? As long as they don't call it "Stupid Fat Ass Morons Who Need To Stop Eating", then what's the problem?