Oh, I relate there. That's actually another reason why I've resisted calling people in the past. I always end up feeling like I'm pulling the majority of the weight in a friendship. Being the one to call, and all that. It doesn't help my insecurities for one thing, but it also gets tiring, and I sometimes begin to resent it a little. Normally though, I don't start feeling huffy over it, unless the person is also flaking out on plans, or other things. Some friends just aren't phone people, after all. But, yeah, I totally know what you mean.